Who Pays for What at Weddings? Modern Rules for Couples and Families

When it comes to who pays for wedding, the traditional idea that the bride’s family covers everything is outdated. Also known as wedding funding, this topic now involves couples, both sets of parents, and sometimes even friends—each playing a role based on budget, culture, and personal choice. The days of rigid roles are gone. In 2024, over 60% of couples in the UK are paying for their own weddings, according to real survey data from bridal planners. It’s not about who ‘should’ pay—it’s about what works for your family and your future.

That shift changes everything. If you’re thinking about groom's parents wedding costs, what they typically cover includes the rehearsal dinner, the groom’s suit, and sometimes transportation or accommodation for out-of-town guests. Also known as groom’s family contributions, these aren’t set in stone—many now split the rehearsal dinner with the bride’s side, or skip it altogether. Then there’s the honeymoon cost, a trip that’s increasingly funded by the couple themselves, or through contributions from guests via wedding registries. Also known as wedding travel budget, it’s no longer assumed that either set of parents foots the bill. Even things like hair and makeup for the mother of the groom, or the cost of a 3-carat diamond ring, are now decided based on what’s affordable—not what’s expected.

What’s actually covered today?

You’ll find answers in real stories from couples who planned weddings on tight budgets, parents who wanted to help without going into debt, and florists who’ve seen trends shift from roses to wildflowers because of cost. The big takeaway? There’s no single rule. One couple paid for their entire wedding with savings and side gigs. Another had the groom’s parents cover the venue, while the bride’s parents paid for the cake and flowers. One bride bought her own ring, then her fiancé paid for the honeymoon. Another couple asked guests to chip in for their honeymoon instead of giving traditional gifts.

This isn’t about breaking tradition—it’s about building a plan that fits your life. Whether you’re wondering how much to spend on a wedding ring, who should pay for the photographer, or whether the mother of the groom needs a new dress, the answers are all in the details you choose. Below, you’ll find clear, no-fluff guides on every part of the wedding budget—from the cake to the car to the honeymoon—so you can plan without stress, guilt, or outdated expectations.