Planning a wedding feels like a marathon, not a sprint. The secret is to break it down month by month. When you know exactly what to do each month, the to‑do list stops looking like a nightmare and starts feeling manageable.
12‑Months Out – Lock in your venue and set a budget. This is the time to decide if parents are chipping in or if you’re covering everything yourself. Once the venue is secured, you can start shopping for the dress and sending save‑the‑dates.
10‑Months Out – Book your photographer and videographer. Ask how many hours you actually need; most couples get away with 6‑8 hours of coverage. Also, start thinking about wedding invitations – matte or glossy, and what details must be on them.
8‑Months Out – Finalise the guest list and send out those save‑the‑dates. If you’re DIY‑decorating, begin gathering ideas and budgeting for supplies. Remember, you can still DIY a beautiful look without breaking the bank.
6‑Months Out – Order the cake (or cupcakes) and schedule a tasting. Decide whether a traditional cake or a stack of cupcakes makes more sense for your budget and guest count. At this stage, also choose bridal accessories – think shoes, veil, and jewellery.
4‑Months Out – Send out the official wedding invitations. Include RSVP cards, and if you see an “M” on the card, it usually means “minor” for kids. Double‑check wording for dress code, registry, and website link.
Our What Should Wedding Invites Include? guide walks you through every detail that belongs on a card – from RSVP deadlines to a polite “no‑phone‑zone” note. If you’re wondering about dress costs, the How Much Should a Bride's Dress Cost? article breaks down real numbers and where you can save.
Got a tight budget? The Is $30,000 Enough for a Wedding? post shows where most money goes and how to trim the big expenses, like venue and photography. For photo lovers, the How Many Hours Should You Book Your Wedding Photographer? article explains why 6‑8 hours covers the ceremony, portraits, and early reception.
If you love getting hands‑on, the DIY decoration guide shares step‑by‑step tips on planning, budgeting, and setting up the venue without a crew. And for those worried about ring traditions, the Who Gives the Wedding Ring First? piece clears up the modern exchange order.
Every month you’ll find a post that matches the task at hand. Whether you need to know who pays for the son’s wedding, how to pick a tie or bowtie for the groom, or whether Costco even sells wedding cakes, we’ve written it down.
Use this page as a checklist hub. Click any title that matches your current month’s need, read the quick guide, and mark the task off. By the time the big day rolls around, you’ll have covered every detail – invites, dress, cake, photographer, and even the last‑minute RSVP quirks.
Remember, the wedding month plan isn’t about rushing. It’s about spacing out decisions so you stay relaxed and enjoy the journey. Keep the timeline flexible – life happens, and a small adjustment won’t wreck the whole plan.
Happy planning! Your wedding month roadmap is ready – now go turn those ideas into reality and make your 2025 celebration unforgettable.