Wedding Do’s and Don’ts: Your Practical Guide

Planning a wedding can feel like a marathon, but knowing the right moves and the common slip‑ups can save you stress and money. Below are the top do’s and don’ts that cover everything from invites to the big day timeline. Follow these simple rules and you’ll keep the day enjoyable for you and your guests.

Do: Nail the Basics Early

Start with a realistic budget and stick to it. Break the total into categories – venue, food, dress, photography, decorations – and track every expense. When you know how much you can spend on each piece, you won’t be surprised later.

Do send your save‑the‑dates and invitations at the right time. Aim for save‑the‑dates 9‑12 months before and formal invitations 8‑10 weeks ahead. Include all essential details: date, time, location, RSVP deadline, dress code, and a link to your wedding website.

Do book the photographer for enough hours to cover the ceremony, portraits, and the reception. Most couples need 6‑8 hours; ask the photographer to suggest a timeline that fits your schedule.

Do hire professionals for the biggest tasks – cake, catering, and lighting. A pastry chef (or pâtissier) knows how to create a stable, beautiful cake that tastes great. Getting a specialist avoids last‑minute disasters.

Don’t: Overlook the Details That Matter

Don’t try to do every decoration yourself unless you have a solid plan and the venue allows it. DIY can be fun, but budget extra time for sourcing supplies, building pieces, and setting them up on the day.

Don’t skip RSVP follow‑up. A missing response can throw off seating and catering numbers. Send a gentle reminder a week before the deadline.

Don’t assume the wedding ring exchange order is set in stone. Traditions vary – some couples let the bride give the ring first, others the groom. Decide together and let your officiant know.

Don’t ignore etiquette for gifts. Parents typically contribute to the couple’s costs, but there’s no hard rule about who buys what. Talk openly about expectations to avoid awkward moments.

Don’t forget to plan for the night before the wedding. Whether it’s a quiet dinner with the best man or a low‑key get‑together, give the groom a clear plan so he’s rested and relaxed.

By following these do’s and avoiding the don’ts, you’ll keep the planning process smoother and the big day more enjoyable. Remember, the goal isn’t perfection – it’s creating a day that feels right for you and your partner.