Getting the right look for a wedding can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be. Whether you’re the groom, a groomsman, or just a guest, a few simple steps will make sure you look sharp without breaking the bank.
First, decide what type of outfit fits the wedding vibe. A black‑tie event calls for a classic tuxedo, while a garden ceremony works well with a lightweight suit in navy or charcoal. If the invitation says "formal" but not "black‑tie," a well‑tailored suit with a crisp shirt is usually the safest bet.
The biggest mistake men make is ignoring fit. Even an expensive suit looks sloppy if it’s too tight or too loose. Start with the shoulders – they should sit squarely without pulling. The jacket’s sleeves should show about a quarter inch of shirt cuff. Pants need a slight break at the heel; anything tighter looks like a fashion experiment.
When in doubt, visit a local tailor. A few minutes of adjustment can turn a decent suit into a great one. Most tailors can shorten sleeves, taper pants, and nip the jacket at the waist for a fraction of the original price.
Accessories are where you add personality. A silk tie or a bow tie in a subtle pattern can lift a plain suit. If the wedding is less formal, a patterned pocket square adds a splash of colour without stealing the show. Cufflinks are optional but useful – they keep the shirt sleeves looking clean and give a polished finish.
Footwear matters too. Black Oxford shoes pair well with tuxedos; brown leather brogues match navy or grey suits. Make sure your shoes are polished and have a comfortable insole – you’ll be standing a lot.
Don’t forget the little details: a belt that matches your shoes, a watch with a simple face, and socks that blend with your trousers. Avoid flashy socks unless the couple has specifically asked for a fun dress code.
Now, let’s talk about colours. If you’re unsure, stick to classic neutrals – navy, charcoal, or black. These work for most weddings and are easy to mix and match. A dark green or deep burgundy suit can be a great alternative for autumn weddings, just make sure the rest of your look stays understated.
Finally, plan ahead. Try on your entire outfit a few weeks before the big day. Run a quick check for stains, loose buttons, and missing accessories. Having everything ready reduces stress on the wedding morning and lets you enjoy the celebration.
With the right fit, thoughtful accessories, and a little preparation, you’ll walk into any wedding looking confident and polished. Remember, the goal is to complement the couple’s special day – not outshine them. Dress well, feel good, and have a fantastic time!