Getting the perfect invitation is one of the first ways you set the tone for your big day. It doesn’t have to be overwhelming—just a few clear choices can turn a simple card into a memorable first impression.
Start by deciding on a style that matches your wedding vibe. A rustic barn wedding usually looks great with kraft paper, handwritten fonts, and a little lace trim. A modern city ceremony shines with clean lines, bold typography, and a matte finish. Keep the layout tidy: a headline (your names), the date, venue, and a simple graphic or border.
Paper weight matters more than you think. A standard invite sits at about 300gsm, which feels solid in the hand but stays cheap enough for postage. If you want extra heft, go 350‑400gsm, but remember you’ll need extra stamps. Matte cards are easy to write on, while glossy cards pop with colour but can be slippery for pens.
Printing options are simple nowadays. Digital printing works for most designs and is budget‑friendly. Letterpress adds a tactile impression that feels luxe, but it costs more and requires a larger minimum order. If you love colour, ask for a sample of both to see which you prefer.
The wording should be clear and friendly. Start with a warm welcome, then list the essentials: who’s hosting, the ceremony time, reception location, and dress code if you have one. A short, polite RSVP line saves you a lot of back‑and‑forth.
Don’t forget the “M” on the RSVP card—traditionally it means “plus‑one”. If you’re okay with guests bringing a date, include a small line like “M: Yes, I’ll bring a guest”. This tiny detail cuts confusion later.
Adding a QR code is a smart modern touch. It can link to your wedding website, where guests find directions, the registry, and accommodation tips. Just make sure the code is at least 1 cm² so phones can read it easily.
Envelope etiquette matters too. Use a matching envelope colour or a classic white for contrast. If your invite is heavy, pick an envelope with a higher gram rating to avoid tears. Seal the envelope with a wax seal or a simple sticker that echoes your design theme.
When it comes to timing, send out your invitations about 8‑10 weeks before the wedding. Save‑the‑dates go out earlier, around 6 months out, especially for destination weddings. This gives guests plenty of time to book travel and respond.
Finally, review the posts on this tag for deeper dives. Our guide on "What Should Wedding Invites Include?" gives a complete checklist, while "Matte or Glossy Cards?" breaks down the pros and cons of each finish. Use these resources to fine‑tune every detail and feel confident your invites will impress.
Remember, your invitation is the first piece of your wedding story. Keep it simple, match it to your theme, and double‑check every line. With the right design, wording, and timing, you’ll set the perfect tone for the celebration to come.