Flower Etiquette: Your Quick Guide to Wedding Flowers

Flowers are a big part of a wedding, but the wrong choice can cause trouble. Knowing the basic rules helps you look great and keep guests happy. Below you’ll find practical tips you can use right away.

Choosing the Right Bouquets

First, think about the bride’s dress and the overall colour scheme. A bouquet that clashes with the gown will draw unwanted attention. Stick to two or three main colours that match the wedding palette.

Size matters too. A tiny bunch looks out of place with a big ball‑gown, while a huge arrangement can drown a simple dress. Ask the florist for a “hand‑held” size if the bride is wearing a sleek silhouette.

Don’t forget the bridesmaids. Their bouquets should be similar to the bride’s but a step down in size and maybe a different shade. This keeps the look cohesive without stealing the spotlight.

Centrepieces and Guest Flowers

Centrepieces should complement the table setting, not overwhelm it. Keep height under 12 inches so guests can see each other across the table. Use low vases, candles, or small floral clusters for a clean look.

If you’re giving out boutonnieres or corsages, match them to the bride’s bouquet. A single rose on the groom’s lapel that matches the bride’s roses ties the whole design together.

When it comes to flower allergies, think about guests who might sneeze. Choose low‑pollen flowers like hydrangeas, orchids, or succulents for the reception area. You can still have a beautiful look without the sniffles.

Avoid over‑decorating the cake with too many blooms. A single elegant arrangement on the top tier looks more polished and is easier for the baker to handle.

Here are some of our recent posts that dive deeper into floral choices:

• Why Brides Carry Wedding Bouquets: Meaning, History & Modern Tips
• Wedding Car Decoration: Who Is Responsible and What You Need to Know
• Standard Wedding Invitation Weight: What You Need to Know Before Mailing

Follow these simple rules and you’ll avoid the most common flower faux pas. Your wedding will feel polished, and you’ll spend less time worrying about the details.

Remember, the goal is to let the love story shine, not the flowers. Keep the arrangements balanced, match the vibe of the day, and enjoy the beautiful atmosphere you create.