Choosing a bridal bouquet can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be. Think of it as picking a piece of art that matches your dress, venue, and personality. Below you’ll find easy steps to help you decide on flowers, keep them fresh, and make sure they look great on the big day.
Start with the overall vibe you want. A rustic wedding often works well with wildflowers, wheat, and greenery. For a classic look, roses, peonies, and hydrangeas are safe bets. If you love bright colors, consider ranunculus or lilies in bold hues. Don’t forget to match the season – summer offers dahlias and sunflowers, while winter brings amaryllis and eucalyptus.
Next, look at your dress. A heavily embellished gown pairs nicely with a simple, single‑stem bouquet. A sleek modern dress can handle a fuller, multi‑layered arrangement. Keep the size proportional – you don’t want a massive bouquet that overshadows your dress, but you also don’t want something too tiny that disappears in photos.
Ask yourself what fragrance matters to you. Some brides love a sweet scent, while others prefer a scent‑free bouquet to avoid overwhelming the venue or the groom. If you’re sensitive, opt for greenery and neutral‑smelling flowers like ivory roses or baby’s breath.
Freshness starts with the florist. Make sure they keep the flowers in water until the last possible moment. Ask for a short stem cut (about an inch) and a secure water source in the bouquet’s base.
On the morning of the wedding, store the bouquet in a cool room, preferably in a refrigerator set to around 40°F (4°C). If you don’t have a fridge, a cool basement or a shaded area works. Keep the stems in water and cover the bouquet with a damp cloth to maintain humidity.
When it’s time to walk down the aisle, carry the bouquet in a sturdy holder or a simple sleeve that keeps it upright. Avoid bending the stems or pressing the flowers against hard surfaces. A little spray of floral preservative water can give an extra boost, but don’t over‑mist – too much moisture can cause drooping.
After the ceremony, you may want to keep a part of the bouquet as a keepsake. Separate a few stems, wrap them in tissue paper, and store them in a dry box. Many brides also press a few flowers in a book for a lasting memory.
Finally, trust your instincts. If a flower feels right when you hold it, that’s a good sign. Your bouquet should feel like an extension of you, not a separate piece you have to force.
With these straightforward tips, you can pick a bridal bouquet that looks gorgeous, feels personal, and stays fresh from the florist to the final dance. Happy planning!