Picking a venue is the first big decision after saying "yes." It sets the tone, limits the guest list, and often eats up most of your budget. So you need a place that feels right and doesn’t break the bank. Below you’ll find practical advice for every budget range, plus tips on sharing costs with family.
If you’re working with $5,000, think community halls, local parks, or a loved one’s backyard. Our recent article, "Is $5,000 Enough for a Wedding?" shows how couples saved by trimming décor, using DIY lighting, and keeping the guest list tight. A small garden can look magical with fairy lights and simple tables.
Raising the budget to $10,000 opens up modest banquet rooms, boutique hotels, or countryside barns. In "Is $10,000 a Good Wedding Budget?" we break down how that money stretches when you negotiate venue packages, choose off‑season dates, and skip expensive extras like live bands. Many venues offer all‑inclusive deals that cover tables, chairs, and basic décor, which can save time and money.
The key is to prioritize. Do you need a built‑in kitchen for a catered dinner, or can you go with a food truck? Do you want a dance floor, or is a cozy lounge enough? List the top three must‑haves and search for venues that deliver them within your price range.
Money talks can get awkward, especially when families pitch in. Our piece "Do Parents Split Wedding Costs?" explains common ways couples share expenses without drama. One popular method is the "percentage split," where each family covers a set share of the venue cost based on how many guests they’re inviting.
Another approach is the "item‑by‑item" split: one side pays for the venue, the other handles catering or photography. Write everything down, set clear expectations, and stick to the plan. Transparency keeps everyone on the same page and prevents surprises later.
Don’t forget to ask the venue about payment plans. Some places let you put down a small deposit and pay the rest in installments, which eases cash flow for families contributing over time.
Finally, keep a simple spreadsheet. List each cost, who’s covering it, and the payment deadline. A quick glance will show if anything’s missing and help you stay organized.
Choosing the right wedding venue doesn’t have to be stressful. Start with your budget, decide which features matter most, and be open about money with family. With these steps, you’ll find a space that feels right and keeps your wallet happy.